There’s a little bit of a punk in me. Maybe it’s in you as well?
Because I’m a stinker, sometimes I do things just to get a rise. I guess it’s my way of checking my mental pulse.
One of the ways I do this is to follow blogs and news from sources holding different values than I hold. I’m a firm believer that untested philosophies are worthless, so if I can be challenged to defend my point of view I’m likely going to be more intelligent about my opinion and more likely to convince others I’m right!
(Let’s be honest, it’s all about being right, right??)
I recently read an article about how underutilized the IUD is as a form of birth control. If you’d like to read the entire story, here’s the link.
What really made my blood boil was the innocently offered statement:
“Today’s options are t-shaped and work by damaging and killing sperm, as well as changing the uterine lining to make it an especially inhospitable environment for little embryos (should the sperm survive).”
I can’t help but become outraged because that’s not just an inhospitable environment for the sperm to survive… that’s a fully viable child that’s being destroyed because the fertilized egg can’t implant!
When I think about the absolute magic that comes with childbearing and the odds against a child being conceived and carried to term it makes me incredibly sad that so many people make the choice to halt the life of a child based on thoughtlessness and convenience.
(In case you haven’t figured out, I believe life starts at conception, the moment that little sperm hits that little egg and fireworks erupt.)
Going cold turkey with birth control isn’t a viable option for most people, I realize. After all, I am pro-child but fully terrified of ending up living in an asylum for small children à la Dugger-style.
I didn’t want to be on the birth control pill anymore but I didn’t want to practice free lovin’ either. I didn’t like the hormones of the Pill and I didn’t like learning that during each year I had been on the Pill I had likely conceived three times but my body had created an “especially inhospitable environment” and flushed that baby out.
While there were definitely other options available I wanted something that was easy, logical and effective. (And not so messy, either. Because I’m a sissy and don’t like messes.)
At the time I was exploring options for birth control a friend passed on a very valuable resource, here it is.
My friend told me about the book Love and Fertility published by the Family of the Americas Foundation. The explanation of this method is logical, easy to understand, and it also helped me understand my own body.
For us, it has been 100% effective.
So I’d like to share it with you. I hope this makes you at least think of birth control options – and perhaps take a chance on going natural!
(I recommend buying the book from the Family of the Americas Foundation. I included the link to the book on Amazon.com just because I thought you might enjoy reading the comments.)
This post was originally published May 23, 2011 and is being recycled as part of the “I’ve Been Around” summer! Hope you enjoyed it and I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments!